I Who Must Be Obeyed Will Keep You Safe
BlkSteel1
Long Beach, California | Homme Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
I am a blk 55 year old Dom that must be obeyed you can request, ask, or suggest but I will take over your life and run it as I see fit.You will be my sex slave and will have sex for my pleasure. You can be of any race single or married you still belong to me. I have a firm but loving hand this too you will learn to love.I DO NOT RESPOND TO PROFILES WITH OUT A PHOTO!!!
What BDSM is NOT
Myth #1 – You can lock a person in a basement and torment them and call it BDSM.
The truth is that if a submissive has not willfully consented to this sort of interaction, it’s still against the law to hold someone against their will.
Myth #2 – You can beat someone senselessly and call it BDSM
Again, unless the submissive asked for such a severe beating (and few people would), this too is against many laws and is not a recommended way to ‘play’ in a BDSM setting.
While it’s true that BDSM can be dangerous, almost every relationship can be dangerous in some way – so let’s talk about the myths that many people have about BDSM to help you understand what is causing the misunderstanding.
The point is that BDSM and Dominant/submissive relationships are all based on a consensual relationship in which boundaries are discussed beforehand. Only when the both of you have understood and agreed upon those limitations, can the scene take place.
It also must be understood, that the submissive can end any scene at any time. This is the point of a consensual Dominant and submissive relationship. While BDSM may be many things, but above all else it should always be Safe, Sane, and Consensual
This means that you should never get involved in any activity that you do not feel comfortable with, is not safe or does not utilize safety measures.
For example:
* Never play with someone you don't know and/or trust
* Always practice protected safe sex
* Never use someone else's toys
* Never let anyone push you into doing something you are not comfortable with.
* Never consume drugs or alcohol before or while you are playing
* Never play when you are angry
Always keep your BDSM sessions at a point where you feel comfortable and safe both mentally and emotionally. Also make sure that your partner understands your limits and respects them. You do not want to put yourself into something that could cause you or your partner permanent harm. This goes for both Dominants and submissives - Nothing in BDSM is meant to inflict permanent damage to a person
BDSM is simply another way to bring excitement into a relationship – both sexual and non-sexual. The turning over of one’s ‘power’ to another allows you to experience all the sensations that you want, while being given the power to guide someone on a journey to exceed their expectations of themselves is also gratifying. All of it must be done in a safe and controlled manner.
What BDSM is NOT
Myth #1 – You can lock a person in a basement and torment them and call it BDSM.
The truth is that if a submissive has not willfully consented to this sort of interaction, it’s still against the law to hold someone against their will.
Myth #2 – You can beat someone senselessly and call it BDSM
Again, unless the submissive asked for such a severe beating (and few people would), this too is against many laws and is not a recommended way to ‘play’ in a BDSM setting.
While it’s true that BDSM can be dangerous, almost every relationship can be dangerous in some way – so let’s talk about the myths that many people have about BDSM to help you understand what is causing the misunderstanding.
The point is that BDSM and Dominant/submissive relationships are all based on a consensual relationship in which boundaries are discussed beforehand. Only when the both of you have understood and agreed upon those limitations, can the scene take place.
It also must be understood, that the submissive can end any scene at any time. This is the point of a consensual Dominant and submissive relationship. While BDSM may be many things, but above all else it should always be Safe, Sane, and Consensual
This means that you should never get involved in any activity that you do not feel comfortable with, is not safe or does not utilize safety measures.
For example:
* Never play with someone you don't know and/or trust
* Always practice protected safe sex
* Never use someone else's toys
* Never let anyone push you into doing something you are not comfortable with.
* Never consume drugs or alcohol before or while you are playing
* Never play when you are angry
Always keep your BDSM sessions at a point where you feel comfortable and safe both mentally and emotionally. Also make sure that your partner understands your limits and respects them. You do not want to put yourself into something that could cause you or your partner permanent harm. This goes for both Dominants and submissives - Nothing in BDSM is meant to inflict permanent damage to a person
BDSM is simply another way to bring excitement into a relationship – both sexual and non-sexual. The turning over of one’s ‘power’ to another allows you to experience all the sensations that you want, while being given the power to guide someone on a journey to exceed their expectations of themselves is also gratifying. All of it must be done in a safe and controlled manner.
Signe
Capricorne
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Quelques kilos en trop
Ma taille est
5' 9 (1.75 m)
Mes yeux sont
Marrons
Mon origine ethnique est
Afro-Américaine
Ma situation maritale est
Divorcé/e
J'ai des enfants
Oui - pas chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Pas sûr/e
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Lèvres
Art Corporel
Même pas envisageable
Mes cheveux sont
Gris
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Pas d'animaux
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Oui
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Etudes universitaires incomplètes
Mon domaine de compétence est
Autre
Je vis
En colocation
Chez moi
Le silence règne
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - socialement
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Cool
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Réservé, Sympa, Sombre
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Dîner , Lecture, Sports, Télévision, Films, Internet, Jeux, Cuisine, Jardinage, Pêche / Chasse, Jeux de cartes, Camper, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Faire la fête, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Dormir, Lire, Aller au casino, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Télévision
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Taking you someplace quite for dinner and drinks so that we can talk and get to know one other.
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Having a harem of subs one Blk,White,Asain,Latin
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Cool, Coquin/e
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Autre
Je vais à la messe
Très peu
Mon but dans la vie c'est
To live out all my hops and dreams and share it with those I hold dear.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Coquin/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Actualités, Documentaires, Films, Sports
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Action, Science-fiction, Documentaires
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Blues, Jazz, Soul
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Autobiographies, Biographies, Fantaisie, Fictions, Santé, Histoire, Maison & jardin, Mystères, Nature, Politique, Science-fiction, Sports, Ouvrages techniques, Romantiques, Erotique
Mon idée du fun
Doing what every I like at the time
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Spontanéité, Audace, Sensibilité, Empathie, Talents, Humour, Beauté, Délicatesse, Intelligence, Passivité
Que recherchez-vous?
I want a woman who is willing to please me in any way I choose she should also be willing to tell me about each and everyone of her fantasies. And be ready to follow my lead as I make them come true.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Relation intime, Engagement, Autre, Mariage, Peu importe, Sexe oral, Sexe anal, Domination, Bondage, Sexe en groupe