I play with limits, not emotions.

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am a divorced Dom who is sick of fake online subs who talk a good game but run and hide when things get close to real.
I am looking for female submissives who are willing to do more than text about their fantasies. I am willing to take things slow, let's face it there isn't any other way to take this especially in 2020. But when someone is unwilling to take any play to phone or video calls then they are fake in some way, either playing fantasy games that will never amount to anything or some kind of scammer. Either way I'm done with those games. I want games that end with my sub in a scene begging for release in either pain or pleasure, not begging to read about the scene as I have written it in text.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

6' 4 (1.93 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

My Hair Is

Dark Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Work At Home

My Speciality Is

Computers / Electronic

My Job Title Is

CCP of Chizek Consulting LLC

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Comedic, Dark

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Internet, Games, Travel, Computers

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Long quiet walk somewhere that we would have things interesting things to trigger conversation, enough privacy to speak openly, and enough people around to be in a public place for both of our comfort and safety.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Public/not-public play, things like remote control vibrators in or on my sub with me holding control. Games that are nearly but not quite explicitly exhibitionist sound like fun, and I have never had a partner who was willing to even think of games like this. Depending on my subs limits, full exhibitionist activities might be on the table - although this pushes my personal limits so I would need to work on scenes of this type.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Goofy

My Religion Is

Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Happiness, comfort, doing things I enjoy doing with people I like and love. That list sounds very hedonistic until you realize that so of the things I enjoy include writing software, writing articles and novels, and other parts of running my small business. So, wrapped up in my enjoyment is making my business prosper and grow, so that I can provide the happiness and comfort I want for myself and my family.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Ancient, Business, Classic, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Sports, Technical, I'm An Author, Romance, Erotica, Supernatural

My Idea Of Fun Is

What I find fun varies tremendously depending on my mood, who I am with, and where I am. Sometimes sitting by a fire reading is my idea of great joy, either by myself or with my love. I may enjoy a night clubbing either locally or drive to the Chicago or Detroit area for a more high-end cub, again alone or together with a sub. Sometimes camping as far from civilization as I can possibly get is my idea of fun, or staying in a high-end hotel in a major city for a weekend or week to sightsee. I love caving, canoeing, boating, rock climbing, cross-country skiing, hiking, biking, and swimming. But at the same time, I enjoy sitting in front of a computer, writing either fact, fiction, software, or just playing games. Some of these things it has been months or even years since I did them, but they are still there waiting for me to get back to, because I still enjoy them, but haven't had the right mood or person for the activity.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness

What Do You Look For?

What I am looking for is, in fact, the six-billion dollar question. If I knew the answer to this question, I wouldn't be looking, would I? I am looking for someone who fits, who complements me but is enough of her own person that I don't have to direct her every move. Who is submissive but not passive can both be a partner and a sub. These may be conflicting requirements making this an impossible goal, but if I don't look, then I will never know.