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Phoenix, Arizona | Hombre Buscando Mujer
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Puedo hablar
Inglés
Me describiría a mi mismo como
Sorry for the vanilla photos. They are all I've got on hand. Don't worry, I'm kinkier than I look...
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
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Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
________________
Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
Signo
Sagitario
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Atlético
Mi altura es
5' 11 (1.8 m)
Mis ojos son
Avellana
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Tengo hijos
Si - No En Casa
Quiero tener hijos
No
Mi Mejor característica es
Ojos
Piercings, tatuajes…
Ni me lo pensaría
Mi pelo es
Marrones
Tengo uno o más de estos
Sin Mascotas
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
No
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Universitario
Mi situación laboral actual es
Tiempo Completo
Mi especialidad es
Investigación / Ciencia / Ingenieria
Mi trabajo es como
Director
Mi salario anual es de
$100,000USD a $150,000USD
Vivo en
Solo/a
En casa
Siempre hay alguna fiesta montada
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
Si - Socialmente
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Espiritual pero no religioso
Voy a la iglesia
Una vez al año
Mi meta en la vida
Three goals: First, enter into an exclusive loving power-exchange LTR. Second, do well by my children. Third, succeed in my work helping people and providing a comfortable living for the people I care for.
Mi sentido del humor es
Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo, Obsceno
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Dramas, Películas
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción, Comedia , Romance, Drama , Documentales, Familia, Animación, Horror, Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Blues, Country, Baile, Electrónica, Industrial, Jazz, Latino, Nueva Era / New Age, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Antiguedades, Autobiografías, Biografías, Erótica, Fantasía, Ficción, Historia, Horror, Humor, Educativos, Matemáticas, Romance, Sobrenatural, Referencia, Religiosos, Ciencia , Ciencia Ficción, Técnica, Soy un autor literario
Mi idea de diversión es
Going out doing something completely vanilla -- eat dinner, see a movie, meet with friends, see a concert, whatever -- but have our own secret set of BDSM relationship rules we are following the whole time. Perfect combination of vanilla and chocolate...
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Audacia, Empatía, Coquetería, Buena Imagen, Humor, Inteligencia, Poder, Ingenio
¿Qué estás buscando?
She's unique. She doesn't follow prescribed gender or bdsm roles. She's comfortable with herself. She takes care of her body. She's intelligent and passionate about what she does. She values conversation. She appreciates being a good parent. She has a great sense of humor and displays it both by thinking I'm funny (I do try hard) and being funny herself. She loves completely and exclusively (doesn't mean she doesn't play with others). If she's dominant she's sweet, empathetic, direct, strict, and a disciplinarian. If submissive, she's rebellious, playful, loving, and masochistic.
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido, Dominación