Love well, whip well - Benjamin Franklin
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Phoenix, Arizona | Man Letar efter Kvinna
Grundläggande information
Jag kan tala
Engelska
Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som
Sorry for the vanilla photos. They are all I've got on hand. Don't worry, I'm kinkier than I look...
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
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Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
________________
Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
Stjärntecken
Skytten
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Atletisk
Min längd är
183 cm
Mina ögon är
Brungröna
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Skild
Jag har barn
Ja - inte hemma
Jag vill ha barn
Nej
Min bästa kroppsdel är
Ögon
Kroppskonst
Skulle aldrig ens tänka tanken
Mitt hår är
Bruna
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Inga husdjur
Villig att flytta
Nej
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Heltid
Min specialitet är
Forskning / Vetenskap / Ingenjör
Min arbetstitel är
Director
Jag tjänar så här mycket per år
Mellan en miljon och en och en halv miljon kronor
Jag bor
Ensam
Hemma
Det är alltid fest på gång
Jag är rökare
Nej
Jag dricker
Ja - feströker
Åsikter
Min religion är
Spirituell men inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
En gång om året
Mitt mål i livet är
Three goals: First, enter into an exclusive loving power-exchange LTR. Second, do well by my children. Third, succeed in my work helping people and providing a comfortable living for the people I care for.
Min humor är
Klok, Torr / Sarkastisk, Vänlig, Tramsig, Oanständig
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Drama, Filmer
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Action, Science Fiction, Komedier, Romantik, Drama, Dokumentärer, Familj, Tecknat, Skräck, Thriller
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Blues, Country, Dansband, Eletronisk, Industriell, Jazz, Latino, New Age, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Urgammal litteratur, Självbiografi, Biografi, Erotik, Fantasy, Fiktion, Historia, Skräck, Humor, Instruerande, Matematik, Romantik, Övernaturlig, Referens, Religiös, Vetenskap, Science Fiction, Teknisk, Jag är författare
Det jag tycker är kul är
Going out doing something completely vanilla -- eat dinner, see a movie, meet with friends, see a concert, whatever -- but have our own secret set of BDSM relationship rules we are following the whole time. Perfect combination of vanilla and chocolate...
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Djärvhet, Empati, Flirtighet, Snygga drag, Humor, Intelligens, Makt, Kvickhet
Vad letar du efter?
She's unique. She doesn't follow prescribed gender or bdsm roles. She's comfortable with herself. She takes care of her body. She's intelligent and passionate about what she does. She values conversation. She appreciates being a good parent. She has a great sense of humor and displays it both by thinking I'm funny (I do try hard) and being funny herself. She loves completely and exclusively (doesn't mean she doesn't play with others). If she's dominant she's sweet, empathetic, direct, strict, and a disciplinarian. If submissive, she's rebellious, playful, loving, and masochistic.
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Dejt, Intimt, Hängivenhet, Dominans