Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Man Op zoek naar een Vrouw
Algemene Informatie
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
Sterrenbeeld
Waterman
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Dun
Mijn Lengte Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Gescheiden
Mijn Haar Is
Donkerbruinharig
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Kat
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Nee
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
Bachelor
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Voltijd
Mijn specialisatie is
Onderwijzer / Onderwijs
Mijn functie is:
professor
Mijn jaarsalaris is:
Tussen de €30.000 en €45.000
Ik Woon
Alleen
Bij mij thuis
Is het lekker rustig
Ik Ben Een Roker
Ja - Een Pijp
Ik Drink
Ja - Een Of Twee
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Stil
In sociale situaties ben ik
Luid, Vriendelijk, Gezellig
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Knutselen, Lezen, Tv, Films, Gezin, Reizen, Koken, Tuinieren
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Films, Een boek lezen, Tv
Een perfecte eerste date is
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk, Cool, Gek, Een Flirt
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Christelijk
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Een keer per maand
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Ranzig
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Nieuws, Documentaires, Drama's, Films
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Drama, Thriller
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Soul
Ik lees graag
Biografie, Fictie, Geschiedenis, Mysterie, Natuur
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Goeie Vaardigheden, Empathie, Gevoeligheid, Moed, Spontaniteit, Flirterig, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid
Wat zoek je?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Anale Seks, Dominatie, Bondage, Date