Take A Chance
theprof_49
Cincinnati, Ohio | Man Letar efter Kvinna
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For two decades now I’ve followed a path that may be familiar to some of the dominants and submissives on this site. I’ve been married to a vanilla person who thinks BDSM is crazy; I’ve perfected my craft by reading and learning from seminars, demonstrations, and others of my persuasion; I’ve sought and found others on whom to ‘practice’; I’ve attended play parties and collarings, and frequented dungeons and observed. I even reverted to dating in the vanilla world for a few years. But now at 60, with my faculties intact (including all of my teeth) and at the top of my form, I’m once again on a BDSM website seeking a submissive.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
The difficulty in finding the right person lies in the nature of the medium many use to find that person: the Internet. Predators use it to lure their prey, mentally unbalanced persons use it to act out fantasies, and con artists abound. So submissives have become more wary than in the past. So have us dominants.
My point? Sorting out the real from the false or the rational from the unbalanced has become more difficult. Trust has eroded. Yet without being willing to trust, there can be no real D/s relationship (or any other kind that I can think of). So first the submissive (and the dominant) has to be willing to communicate and explore. A dominant’s will or a submissive’s gift are not the product of age, size, or income. We should look beyond the superficial.
Yes, we all have preferences. Physical attributes do contribute to the elixir of attraction. I prefer women of at least average weight relative to height and at least a decade younger than I am. That’s about it in terms of preferences. I keep my options open. I’ll meet the right person some day. She might be 30 or she might be 50, 5’0” or 6’ tall, black, white, Asian or Hispanic. She might have a Ph.D. or a GED. She may have children or may want to have a child; she may not want any children. All of these things are superficial. What does matter is that when I look into her eyes and she hears my words and feels my touch, she drops to her knees.
This degree of trust and commitment doesn’t come in days or even weeks. It certainly has little to do with common interests, cultures, education, or activities one enjoys. It begins by stepping outside of one’s boundaries, to remove the blinders and be open to the possibilities of trust.
I’m open to short term play or long term training or just friendship. Eventually, I’d like to meet someone willing to enter into a 24/7 relationship.
So take a chance. At the least you might share an enjoyable dinner and conversation with someone who understands and appreciates your sexuality.
Stjärntecken
Vattumannen
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Smal
Min längd är
174 cm
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Skild
Mitt hår är
Mörkbrunt
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Katt
Villig att flytta
Nej
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Heltid
Min specialitet är
Lärare / utbildning
Min arbetstitel är
professor
Jag tjänar så här mycket per år
Mellan 300 000 och 450 000 kronor
Jag bor
Ensam
Hemma
Allt är lugnt
Jag är rökare
Ja - pipa
Jag dricker
Ja - en eller två
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Den tysta
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Högljudd, Vänlig, Utåtriktad
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Konst & Hantverk, Läsa, TV , Filmer, Familj, Resor, Matlagning, Trädgårdsarbete
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Umgås med vänner, Stanna hemma, Bio, Läsa en bok, TV
Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att
Lunch at an upscale resturant where we can hear each other talk -- maybe at a place that serves outdoors, such as a Thai restaurant I know about in Mt. Adams, Cincinnati.
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Vänlig, Cool, Tramsig, En flirt
Åsikter
Min religion är
Kristen
Jag går i kyrkan
En gång i månaden
Mitt mål i livet är
I've achieved my goals except to spend the rest of my life 24/7 with the right submissive at my place in the country.
Min humor är
Klok, Torr / Sarkastisk, Vänlig, Oanständig
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Nyheter, Dokumentärer, Drama, Filmer
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Action, Drama, Thriller
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Rock, Blues, Jazz, Soul
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Biografi, Fiktion, Historia, Mystery, Natur
Det jag tycker är kul är
Hanging out at my house in the country on the weekend working on the house and garden, repairing, cooking, fixing things up.
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Intelligens, Snygga drag, Humor, Enorm skicklighet, Empati, Känslighet, Djärvhet, Spontanitet, Flirtighet, Kvickhet, Omtänksamhet
Vad letar du efter?
signs of honesty, ability and willingness to communicate openly, creativity, flexibility, good humor, wit, intelligence, good conversation.
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Analsex, Dominans, Bondage, Dejt