Love well, whip well - Benjamin Franklin
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Phoenix, Arizona | Homme Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
Sorry for the vanilla photos. They are all I've got on hand. Don't worry, I'm kinkier than I look...
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
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Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?
Some quick points about me:
I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.
I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.
It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.
The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.
I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.
I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).
________________
Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.
In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.
Signe
Sagittaire
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Athlétique
Ma taille est
5' 11 (1.8 m)
Mes yeux sont
Noisettes
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Divorcé/e
J'ai des enfants
Oui - pas chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Non
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Yeux
Art Corporel
Même pas envisageable
Mes cheveux sont
Marrons
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Pas d'animaux
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme d'études supérieures
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Plein-temps
Mon domaine de compétence est
Recherche / Science / Ingénierie
Mon titre de fonction est
Director
J'ai gagné cette année
De 100,000 € à 150,000 €
Je vis
Seul/e
Chez moi
C'est tout le temps la fête
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - socialement
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses
Je vais à la messe
Une fois par an
Mon but dans la vie c'est
Three goals: First, enter into an exclusive loving power-exchange LTR. Second, do well by my children. Third, succeed in my work helping people and providing a comfortable living for the people I care for.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu, Coquin/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Drames, Films
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Action, Science-fiction, Comédies, Romantiques, Drames, Documentaires, Famille, Animation, Horreur, Thrillers
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Blues, Country, Dance, Electro, Indus, Jazz, Latino, New age, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Littérature ancienne, Autobiographies, Biographies, Erotique, Fantaisie, Fictions, Histoire, Horreur, Humour, Programmes instructifs, Mathématiques, Romantiques, Surnaturel, Œuvres de référence, Religions, Sciences, Science-fiction, Ouvrages techniques, Je suis auteur
Mon idée du fun
Going out doing something completely vanilla -- eat dinner, see a movie, meet with friends, see a concert, whatever -- but have our own secret set of BDSM relationship rules we are following the whole time. Perfect combination of vanilla and chocolate...
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Audace, Empathie, Séduction, Beauté, Humour, Intelligence, Pouvoir, Bon sens
Que recherchez-vous?
She's unique. She doesn't follow prescribed gender or bdsm roles. She's comfortable with herself. She takes care of her body. She's intelligent and passionate about what she does. She values conversation. She appreciates being a good parent. She has a great sense of humor and displays it both by thinking I'm funny (I do try hard) and being funny herself. She loves completely and exclusively (doesn't mean she doesn't play with others). If she's dominant she's sweet, empathetic, direct, strict, and a disciplinarian. If submissive, she's rebellious, playful, loving, and masochistic.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement, Domination